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Our Oilers blogger Derek Zona has written a great piece about homophobia in the NHL and hockey in general. It is worth clicking over and reading. I'm happy to say our local Atlanta recreational leagues have a number of out gay people who participate--and I'm proud to call some of them my teammates.

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I’m sorry, but I have a hard time getting worked up over the combined topics of hockey and homophobia. Yeah, yeah, I know about Burkie’s son, but other than that, I just don’t care.

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by Black ice in Alabama on Jul 7, 2010 1:20 PM EDT reply actions  

This is an issue in EVERY team sport (except couples figure skating). Playing team sports, especially full contact ones like football and hockey, is to be surrounded in a culture of machismo. No coach is going to say “go out there and get in touch with your feelings, men.” They’re going to say things like, “stop playing like a bunch of sissies” etc. Obviously there is a fair bit of blatant homophobia in professional sports e.g. Jeremy Shockey, but I think most of the fear of coming out is the PERCEPTION that everyone on the team/in the league is homophobic due to the macho culture these guys have been surrounded by their whole careers. However, I would like to think the REALITY is players would be much more open to having a gay teammate than that player perceives them to be.

by dennylambert!! on Jul 7, 2010 2:14 PM EDT reply actions  

What? There are gay people in our league? Just kidding. Personally I agree with Bama. I don’t really see where there is a need for people to talk about their sexual lives (gay or straight) in the locker room. If you have come into a situation where it comes up some how then by all means tell the truth, most of us are more open minded than you would think.

by Ahijado94 on Jul 7, 2010 7:19 PM EDT reply actions  

I think at our level people are pretty grown up about the whole thing. Our fellow gay skaters don’t come into the locker room making bold announcement about their personal lives, they just don’t hide who they are—that’s how it ought to be in my opinion.

The bigger problem is in professional leagues and with teenagers. The social pressures are much different (i.e. negative) to the point where some gay people just stop playing. There is no reason the environment should be that toxic for those players. We shouldn’t be driving people away from the awesome sport of hockey in those leagues.

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by The Falconer on Jul 7, 2010 7:24 PM EDT up reply actions  

Coming from a profession where I have seen homophobia hurt people first hand...

… I think all anyone expects is tolerance and just being able to function as a normal person. There’s no reason why anyone shouldn’t be able to participate in what they’d like to – orientation, religion, whatever aside. It’s a sport – if your teammates are folks you trust and care about, then good. If they’re not, you need a new team – if they’re not someone you trust and care about just because of something that’s none of your business, you need a new team for different reasons.

It’s always been my philosophy to not care about anyone’s religion, race, sexual orientation, creed, or whatever. If you’re a nice person, you’re a nice person, and I’ll hang around with you. I’ve had friends, co-workers, and students who have been gay, and I don’t care – unless someone decides to make it some random issue out of it. Then, well, if you have a problem with how someone else believes or feels that doesn’t effect you, then dude – focus on the “doesn’t effect you” part. Just be nice and care about others. It makes life a whole lot easier.

Trippy hippy out.

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by hildymac on Jul 8, 2010 3:58 AM EDT reply actions  

I’m a fan of the Thrashers, but a fan of the human race above that. I’ve done some musical collabs with a MtF, and if some people had their way, that would be conceptualized as "I made dubstep with a person on the same level as a dogfucker".

I don’t enjoy people who strut around and make a facade out of being gay, because that for me is like jump-up dnb. It’s not real. It’s pretty much commercial. But at the same time, I loathe people who decide others are any less of a human being than they are because of who they’re involved romantically with.

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by headsigh on Jul 8, 2010 9:27 PM EDT reply actions  

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